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Jamie's avatar

Train time! It really is something apart. I'd had the same thought, or feeling, shunting across Italy earlier in the summer. You've distilled it down perfectly!

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Claire Daverley's avatar

Totally beautiful, and fully agree. Always write better - or at the very least differently - when on trains. ❤️

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Laura Pashby's avatar

Thank you Claire! And lovely to see you here ✨

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Tiffany Writes's avatar

Oh for more train time 🧡

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Belinda Rastall's avatar

I just love the almost dreamlike state this essay evokes. I agree that the fragile intersection of so many people, so many lives, during train travel creates a heady state of 'what if' , whipping up almost-memories of existences not lived.

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Laura Pashby's avatar

‘almost-memories of existences not lived’ oh yes, that is the perfect way to describe it. 💫

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The Grooveblaster's avatar

I really love this - "Train time is not clock time, it is a paused, suspended, dream-like state…" It would be nice to find more places where time is like this. Time, it's killing me. Time travels at different speeds in different places. At my day job it tortures me with its slow pace. At home on the weekends, it teases me, speeding by at a breakneck pace.

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Laura Pashby's avatar

Time is so mysterious! I have Carlo Rovelli's The Order of Time on my desk, waiting for me to find time (ha!) to read it...

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Alison's avatar

Love, love, love a train journey. After reading your piece I want to book some solo journeys, to travel, to view through glass and imagine myself in another life. Thank you

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Laura Pashby's avatar

It's such a wonderful way to imagine different possibilities. I had forgotten.

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Claudia Wilde's avatar

Oh how I miss being in the timeless worlds between stations. I haven't been on a train in years. It's not as common here in Australia. Back in Europe I used to take the train everywhere. Your beautiful story took me straight back to it ✨ and also makes me want to know more about your trip haha

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Laura Pashby's avatar

Ahh, it's a magical way to travel, isn't it? More about my journey to come, but it'll be in my book, so a bit of a wait, I'm afraid!

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Wayne Bromiley's avatar

Thank You Laura. Many times I thought about riding a train during winter and Christmas time across Europe and seeing the alps and small villages decorated for the holidays. For a few moments I just did.

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Laura Pashby's avatar

I'm so glad you enjoyed it. Thank you for reading.

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Fiona Kat's avatar

I love this so much. To me, travelling by train feels rather magical. I only ever take the train when I’m heading to do something fun, but it’s funny to me how often my train journeys themselves become part of the memories of the event. Recently a journey into Melbourne included a spontaneous musical session as a group of young people started singing songs in their language and cultural style, as the suburbs flashed by on our way into the city centre. It was so wonderfully unexpected. I always take my journal just in case something like that happens along the way.

My husband, who works in the railway industry here in Australia, seems amused by my having an anecdote to share from every supposedly mundane train journey, as it’s something that he sees as not particularly different to a day in the office. That said, even he appreciates that working in the railways has taken him across this continent and to parts of Europe. Place names on a map might be transformed into memories of the best sandwiches he’s tried in a corner shop in a remote rural town, or old buildings with interesting historical architecture, or beautiful landscapes to be filed away as future hiking options. Most recently his work has taken him to towns where some of ancestors settled when they first came to Australia.

I also wanted to say, I’ve been reading your book “Little Stories of Your Life.” I appreciate it so much. It’s sparking memories of when I first created a Blogger account, when I was in my early 20s and a young mum. It was a time in my life when I was trying to find my voice, in a place where other folks were trying to define my life on my behalf. Your book has me thinking about creative ways I might utilise the piles of old physical journals scattered around my house, and seeing if I can find my old blog writings to bring together the happy memories. Thank you for the inspiration.

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Laura Pashby's avatar

I had a Blogger blog too! I missed it until Substack came along. I’m so glad you’ve been enjoying my book—thank you for reading it! And I agree, always carry a notebook for a train journey... it’s where the magic happens. 💫💫💫

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Yasmin Chopin's avatar

I love train travel and you evoke the sense of dreaminess very well, Laura. Since ditching the car, I've also started using buses quite a lot and I really like the camaraderie I see on buses locally. Thanks for sharing, Laura.

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Laura Pashby's avatar

Ah yes, the dreaminess! 🤍

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Maria Hanley's avatar

This is exactly how I feel on airplanes, and in airports for that matter. I understand why people avoid travel these days, but international travel was part of my childhood as my family were expats in the Middle East for many years. There is something about being between places— worlds, even—as if time is suspended, that I find comforting.

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Noemi's avatar

Beautiful! Even more beautiful is the fact that I enjoyed reading this while traveling on a train. My last read before my final destination just ahead. Thank you for these beautiful words and colorful depictions!

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Laura Pashby's avatar

Oh, the perfect place to read it! I love that.

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Sally Gurteen's avatar

Beautiful, as always, and very much identify ♥️♥️♥️

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Laura Pashby's avatar

Thank you Sally 💫

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Mary Ellen Gambutti's avatar

Lovely, sensory. Thank you, Laura.

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Laura Pashby's avatar

Thank you so much for reading.

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Carmen Luisa's avatar

Ohhh I love this Laura. 50% of my posts are written on trains and I used to write my uni essays on trains. Thoughts flow differently when we’re moving and the scenery flies by. There’s such so much to experience with all our senses, small stories, big emotions and cute conversations to witness.

I’ll be on a 6h train ride tomorrow across Germany, praying for no delays and hoping for some good writing time.

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Laura Pashby's avatar

Oh I love that! That special train magic.... ✨

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The Poet Witch's avatar

Just beautiful. I love the ethereal way you write and capture the reader with the senses.

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Laura Pashby's avatar

Oh thank you so much!

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